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Celebrate freedom,
but recall struggle

In Excelsior Springs, we're already well into the Independence Day season. Not only can you hear the whizzes and pops of fireworks in virtually every neighborhood in town -- despite fireworks being banned in Excelsior Springs -- but local residents already saw a fireworks display Saturday night.
Well, more fireworks are on the way, and we know almost everyone will be celebrating the Fourth of July with their friends and families.
It's easy as we light firecrackers and fountains, or as we watch the amazing bursts overhead, to focus on the celebration of freedom. After all, to most of us, that's what Independence Day is: an opportunity to observe our nation1s birthday and a chance to celebrate life in the free world.
But that overlooks the long struggle our nation has faced as we have worked toward freedom. The Declaration of Independence wasn't the first step in our fight to break free from British rule, and it certainly wasn't the last. For years, American rebels fought against British redcoats, and the early years of our nation were anything but calm, as the new government tried to establish a framework within which our freedoms would be observed. And despite lessons about the Founding Fathers, they disagreed strongly about some aspects of the Constitution, the Bill of Rights and other components of the fledgling U.S. government.
Nor did the fight toward freedom end in those days. The Civil War and other conflicts cemented our freedoms, as did non-military battles such as the fight for civil rights.
Celebrate our Independence this weekend, but remember that it didn't come easily.


Contact your elected officials:

EXCELSIOR SPRINGS

City Council:
Carolyn Schutte, Mayor
Ambrose Buckman, Mayor Pro Tem
Ken Fousek
Jim Nelson
Sonny Parker

School Board:
Bill Halberstadt, President
Darren Marriott, Vice President
Roy Arnold
Jennifer Cogburn
Susan Edwards
Jim McCullough
John McGovern

FEDERAL & STATE

Senator Kit Bond
274 Russell Senate Office Blvd.
Washington, D.C. 20510
(202) 22-5721
kit_bond@bond.senate.gov

Senator Claire McCaskill
Washington, DC 20510
202-224-6154
mccaskilltransition@mccaskill.senate.gov

Congressman Sam Graves
1407 Longworth House Office Bldg.
Washington, D.C. 20515
(202) 225-7041

Govenor Matt Blunt
Rm. 216, State Capitol
Jeffeson City, Mo. 65101
(573) 751-3222

State Sen. Bill Stouffer
Rm. 332, State Capitol
Jefferson City, Mo. 65101
(573) 751-1507

Rep. Bob Nance
Rm. 201D, State Capitol
Jefferson City, Mo. 65101
(573) 751-1468
bob.nance@house.mo.gov



Lack of commitment cheapens marriage

What has happened to the average American's level of commitment? Sadly, our society has become so accustomed to "casual relationships" that the true institution of marriage is in danger of extinction.
Many couples, generally the Baby Boomers on down through Generation X, have
set a lousy example to young people by treating marriage as a casual commitment that's relatively easy to get out of.
Today, people seemingly get married without even intending for it to last a lifetime. They throw a giant celebration, collect the gifts and swear to all sorts of serious sounding vows without actually making a commitment. If it's easy and the relationship works out, great, but if it doesn't couples get divorced and move on to the next relationship.

BRIAN RICE
Publisher

It's not simply America's high divorce rate that sends this message, but the fact that so many couples break up over the smallest of problems. If marriages are easily discarded then why go through the bother of working out your differences or finding common ground? It takes much less effort to walk away and find someone new than it does to build on what you have.
This problem has been compounded by the endless attention paid to celebrity marriages. It seems that the more media coverage a wedding receives, the less time its participants stay married. The end of these relationships might be portrayed by the media as sad, perhaps there1s a teary "Oprah" appearance by the female member of the couple or a "People" magazine cover story, but that sadness never lasts. Worse, our country has come to not only accept, but to expect, these relationships to end tragically.
This concept - that commitment means absolutely nothing and you can leave a situation as soon as it becomes difficult - has infected young people and seeped into other areas of their lives. If a vow taken in front of our closest family and friends, often in a house of God, can be so easily discarded then what can't be?
Our bad example teaches kids that when the going gets tough, the tough tell their lawyers to negotiate the best deal possible. Adults acting this way teach kids that they need not stick by any commitment. If you get cut from the team, stop practicing and quit the sport. If you don't understand algebra right away then decide that math must not be for you. Do anything you want and at the first sign of trouble, feel free to bail out. These self-serving attitudes will continue to unravel the core values on which this country was founded.
No marriage is perfect. Christi and I have our share of spats. A couple in a healthy relationship often argues over things, some big, some trivial.
Arguments should not be avoided or ignored. The key to marriage is not a lack of arguing, but the compromising and reasoning that comes as a result of the argument. The respect that is learned in a healthy marriage carries outward towards friends, coworkers and communities. It is this positive influence that our country so desperately needs if we are to remain strong and unified -- especially in tough times of war and recession.
If we expect our kids to show perseverance in times of trouble, then we must set a better example. Marriage has to mean something, because adults have to show the next generation that giving your word matters and that sometimes the hardest things to attain are the ones most worth having.

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