In life, we all come across those who put us down for something we do or don’t do that they wish we should have done. It has happened to the best of us, and sometimes things don’t change. I was recently listening to one of my favorite radio stations, 96.5 The Buzz and the Church of Lazlo came on. If you haven’t heard it, it is two guys, Lazlo and Slim Fast, who talk about various things including news headlines. I appreciate the comedy on the show and sometimes even trail off into my thoughts while listening. After all, that’s what talk radio is for, right? This afternoon, I tuned in to listen on my drive home and caught the end of a thought on the talk show: If you’re not popular in high school, does it matter in your adult life? Both views were discussed on the radio, but I started thinking deeply about them. Most of you who read my column can probably tell I was anything but popular in high school. I was the geek, the outcast, the one who listened to punk music and always found…